How does kindness affect children in their upbringing and their parents? | religion

Dr. Badria Al -Hourani has spoken –During the episode– On the authority of her son, Hisham, who died in a small life and what he left with her affected by her after his death, and she said that he was the one who was pampering it instead of showing it.

Al -Hourani says that her husband was killed in the sectarian events that the Iraqi capital, Baghdad, lived in 2006, and her son was not more than two and a half years.

Hisham Al -Asghar was between 4 orphans, and his mother says that he was beautiful in form, spirit and attributes and recalling many of his positions with her before his death with the disease of the bone marrow failure.

Although he is the youngest among her children, Hisham showed more attention to his mother, who says that he never tired her in his upbringing, nor in his studies, not even in his illness in which he spent.

Hisham did not want – at his young age – except to satisfy his mother, until he was telling him, feeling a young man, the way she is satisfied with her. It also did not make her prepared for breakfast for him, but rather he was preparing it for her, as she says.

Companionship is the best characteristics of education

During the episode, Sheikh Hazem Boumouza said that the parents should put decisiveness and kindness, both in its place while they raised their children, stressing that kindness is the best characteristics of education because “there is nothing in anything but its adultery and nothing came out of anything except its affair, as the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said.”

The sheikh drew to the Almighty saying, addressing his Prophet Muhammad, “If you were rude to the thick of the heart, they would have shook around you.”

The sheikh said that beating and violence are not a healthy means of education, and that neglect and coexistence of children with kindness and softness is the best that raises children, stressing that the Messenger of God – may God bless him and grant him peace – did not hit a boy, a maid or a woman.

The Messenger of God urged showing feelings to children and kissing them as a matter of mercy, which is something that does not diminish the prestige of the father or his place, and the Prophet of God urged Luqman to his son to humility with no tolerance in dignity and economy in gait and sound, says Sheikh Boumouza.

The sheikh adds that the speech is one of the most important skills of raising children, pointing out that the act of “saying” was the most common in the Qur’an and was not only linked to the family but to dealing with all people, including the Almighty saying, “And they said to people well.”

Likewise, the parents have to remember that they are responsible for raising children and not only for education, study, food and drink. Islam has divided the stages of education into three “seven education, seven to strike, and seven for friendship.”

The Sheikh narrated the story of a young man who lives the lives of kings, but when he asked him about his relationship with his father, his response was that he did not love him because he was always busy with him and did not give him anything from his time.

Therefore, the sheikh says that it is religion that a person gives time to take care of his children, talk to them, and know their affairs so that they do not separate from him and treat him as strangers if they grow up.